Be Monica

by Monica Rysavy on January 28, 2010

Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project, has the mantra “Be Gretchen” as one of her Twelve Commandments.

I’m not finished reading her book yet (on my Kindle) but I absolutely love it. And while starting my own personal Happiness Project sounds like an amazingly wonderful idea – it also sounds a little overwhelming to me right now.

I have decided, however, to adopt one of her commandments for myself – thus my new mantra:

Be Monica.

To me this means I will worry less about what others think and do more of what I know is good for me.

It started today when I finally began studying for the GRE.

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I’m studying for the GRE so I can go back to school to get my Ph.D. Many people feel that this would be a crazy thing for me to do.

Why?

Because I already have an Ed.D.

Some people wonder if I simply want another set of initials after my name – in fact I don’t care much about initials (I’ve had an MBA since I was 22 and I’ve never used those initials).

Others wonder if I don’t feel that my degree is “real” because it’s an Ed.D. and not a Ph.D.  I don’t feel that way. I firmly believe that I have a “real” doctorate.

I want to go back to school because I love to learn and I want to become a better researcher.

There are so many topics and theories that I want to explore including: instructional technology, curriculum development, pre-service teacher education and professional development for current teachers.

I have a lot of experience with applied research but I want to learn more about theoretical research. You can learn about the difference between those types of research here if you are interested.

So today I started studying. My goal is to take the test by the end of May so I don’t have to spend the summer studying.

This is my first step in my quest to “Be Monica”.

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